This was so wholesom advice , and look d so friendly , that i could not but be convinc d it was the best course i could take ; so i accordingly prepared letters to the gentle - woman with whom i had left my money , and a procuration to the portuguese captain , as he desired 船长的建议确实是一个万全良策，且出于真诚的友谊。我深信，这简直是一个万无一失的办法。所以，我按船长的要求，给保管我存款的太太写了一封信，并又写了一份委托书，交给这位葡萄牙船长。
Appear these undesirable reasons are very much , main is parents ' favorite element , treat the child as small emperor small princess , close in domestic small circle of people , devoid society interacts , cause cheeper psychology defect , the gets used to social life very hard requirement after be brought up , handle the complex relation between person and person hard , establish genuine friendship and good social morality 出现这些不良的原因很多，主要的是父母宠爱的因素，把孩子当做小皇帝小公主，关在家庭的小圈子里，缺乏社会交往，造成幼儿心理缺陷，将来长大后很难适应社会生活的要求，难以处理人与人之间的复杂关系，建立真诚的友谊和良好的社会道德。
