By nature inoffensive , friendly and obliging , his presentation at st . james s had made him courteous 他生来不肯得罪人，待人接物总是和蔼可亲，殷勤体贴，而且自从皇上觐见以来，更加彬彬有礼。
If one man sins against another man , god will arbitrate for him ; but if a man sins against jehovah , who will arbitrate for him 25人若得罪人，有神为他作仲裁；人若得罪耶和华，有谁能为他作仲裁呢？
Ex . ： lao mao has an irascible temperament and offends people easily . if his wife is not there to smooth things over , he will be really lost at what to do 例：老毛这个人就是太急，说话老得罪人，如果不是他夫人打圆场，他可真不知道怎么办了。
Wherefore i say unto you , all manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men : but the blasphemy against the holy ghost shall not be forgiven unto men 故此我告诉你们，一切得罪人和毁谤人的事、都可以得赦免，惟独谤渎（同词?毁谤）圣灵，总不能得赦免。
