On the other hand , the man ' s active politeness is perhaps slowly being replaced by true consideration for the needs and feelings of women , so that men can see women as equal human beings , rather than as weaker ones or something that can be used to please men 另一方面，男士们主动的礼貌也许正在渐渐地被处于对女士需求和情感方面的真正考虑所取代，所以男士可以把女士当成平等的人类，而不是弱者或是用来取悦男人的工具。
To rostovs surprise , denisov in his new uniform , pomaded and perfumed , was quite as dashing a figure in a drawing - room as on the field of battle , and was polite to the ladies and gentlemen as rostov had never expected to see him 罗斯托夫感到惊奇的是，杰尼索夫穿着一身新制服，涂了发油，喷了香水，就像上阵似的，穿着得十分考究，他摆出这个样子，在客厅里出现了，他对女士和男子都献殷勤，以致罗斯托夫怎么也没料到他竟有这副样子。
