When a skater is feeling low , she should be able to cry on her pro ' s shoulder . i can ' t even do that 当一个运动员感觉不好时,她应该能趴在教练的肩上哭一场,可是我没有这样做。
It is easy to find reasons to not feel good , to not feel comfortable , to hide from oneself and others 找理由感觉不好、感觉不舒服,把自己与真正的自己和他人躲藏起来,是件容易简单的事
As a rule , the one who is feel bad about oneself will adpot two strategies , either always be particular about others or oneself 通常,自我感觉不好的人会采用两种策略,要么老是挑剔别人,要么总是挑剔自己。
The next time you feel uncomfortable in any way , try to identify what you were thinking about just before you started feeling uncomfortable 下一次你无论是怎样地感觉不好,就试着去发现就在你感觉不好之前正在想什么。
Maria : what do you mean ? but i can be yours . . . i ' ll be here for you forever . and i ' ll never yell at you or make you feel bad 玛利亚:你在说什么?我可以是你的。 。 。我永远在这里和你一起。我不会朝你大叫或让你感觉不好。
Around 1900 , sigmund freud stated his theory that people try to repress ( push out of the mind , hide ) any memories or thoughts that they believed were not good 1900年左右,弗洛伊德把他的理论描述为个体压抑自己感觉不好的记忆。
Maria : and i ' ll never yell at you or make you feel bad . that ' s what you wanted . i ' m different than mary . . . how can you throw me away 玛利亚:我不会朝你大叫或让你感觉不好,那不是正是你想要的吗?我和玛丽是不同的。 。 。你怎么能抛弃我?
When he felt out of sorts , he would rave and stamp , or sink into suicidal gloom and talk darkly of going to the east to end his days as a buddhist monk 当他感觉不好,他会说粗话并跺脚,或者沉入有自杀倾向的忧郁中,并伤心地说要到东方像一个和尚一样结束他的生活。
When someone takes something from you , it hurts . but when they do just give it to them and then you can never be robbed . did you ever realize that 耶稣基督在马槽诞生,这是圣诞的意义,给我们的赐予,有人拿取你的东西,感觉不好受,但只要你把他要的交出,你就不会遭抢掠,有想过吗?