Altruism may breed better marriages , a new study suggests . or , thedata might mean that good marriages make people morealtruistic . whatever , altruism and happiness seem to go together inthe realm oflove . altruism may breed better marriages , a new study suggests 美国社会学家日前公布的一项调查结果显示，无私的爱心和行为很有可能“培育”出美满的婚姻，又或者说，一段好姻缘同样会让人变得更加无私。
But she had never felt so strongly as now the disadvantages which must attend the children of so unsuitable a marriage , nor ever been so fully aware of the evils arising from so ill - judged a direction of talents ; talents which rightly used , might at least have preserved the respectability of his daughters , even if incapable of enlarging the mind of his wife 但是，说到不美满的婚姻给儿女们带来的不利，她从前决没有象现在体验得这样深刻，父亲的才能使用不得当因而造成种种害处，这一点她从来没有象现在这样看得透彻。要是父亲的才能运用得适当，即使不能够扩展母亲的见识，至少也可以保存女儿们的体面。
Shes a graduate of stanford university , she has a very admirable education and marvelous career as a journalist and has had best selling books on the new york times best selling list , but i think her greatest compliment is that she is happily married and has four wonderful children and still had time to write another book 她毕业于史丹福大学，她受过极好的教育，也有著很好的事业。她是一位记者，也是纽约时报畅销书的作者但我想她最伟大的成就，是美满的婚姻和四名可爱的孩子，而她仍然有时间写作另一本书，书名是我是吾母之女。
Some people are wise from having experienced difficult marriages in the past . so they avoid marriage now , and maybe become monks because of that . they probably have had enough experience in marriage , and don t need any more experience in such study or experimentation 有些人前世曾经历过不美满的婚姻，所以他们这辈子学聪明了，不再结婚，有的人可能就出家当和尚，他们这些人也许已经饱尝婚姻的滋味，不需要再体验这门功课，所以这辈子就不再结婚了，他们对单身生活感到很满意。
