If its a fearful situation , we have to think about what we can do to make it better . if its a fearful person , we have to try to use love to overcome our own fear . the person whos sometimes bad to us makes us fearful , because he or she is an insecure person 若是情况很可怕，我们要想办法让情况好转若是遇到可怕的人，我们要想办法用爱心化解他的恐惧有时候有的人会对我们不好，使我们感到害怕，那是因为他本身没有安全感，所以要看情况而定。
Subconsciously you will manifest this kind of situation for yourself , that maybe suddenly your wife becomes cold , or she becomes more agitated , aggressive and makes much trouble in your marriage . then if she walks out or if she makes more trouble than you can bear , then you must remember that maybe it s you . if it s not you , then it might be her 你的潜意识会造这些情况出来，也许你太太突然变得冷漠或暴躁易怒，让婚姻变得好麻烦，万一她离家出走或造出更多你无法忍受的困扰，那你一定要先想想看，这可能是你自己惹出来的，看情况而定。
